Dating a man
Today as I listen to single women tell their stories about dating divorced men, I remember my experience well.
I see them making choices about dating divorced men similar to ones I made.
Choices based on the present but without enough regard on the past.
Before you date a divorced man, ask these four questions: This seems like an obvious first question.Not only does an adequate amount of time need to pass before someone starts dating after a divorce, but that time should be purposeful.Participating in professional counseling, mentoring, and support groups, ideally Christian-based, shows a man’s humility, maturity, and leadership.It was also a red flag that my suspicions were right – we didn’t share the same level of interest in each other.When the night was over I went to his hotel room to see if he was there. Then he said, “Here I am a 34-year-old man at a singles’ retreat.” That’s when I knew that dating someone who had been married was more complicated than dating someone who had not.